Expectation & Emotion -

Is expectation good from somebody who is closer to you?

Knowingly or unknowingly we normally start expecting with people of our professional life, social life and personal life, just because we becomes very closer to those people and that’s why we expect the same. Actually to do expectation is like to have slow poison. One can pretend by putting an example of his/her chaotic situation or any other compulsion behind this. But it’s all about priority to that person.

As much as it is easy in saying, it's that much difficult in implementation, but a bitter truth. This is not the problem of your expectation. Actually this is the problem of your emotion. Emotion is a kind of energy which retaliates on every unfulfilled wish with a lot of pain and anxiety.

Do you know? When you expect something with someone and it get fulfilled you really wish to take a sigh of relief. No, actually a long sigh of relief. You become thrilled and happy. You wish to do everything smoothly and your belief and love becomes double to what it was earlier.

But when your expectation is broken by someone, really that becomes a state in which you will not be able to take a normal breath only. Even you will be feeling anxiety, "a deep anxiety and pain" with loneliness. So you tell me please that if you know all these things, then why should you expect with someone for anything? If it’s your human nature then why are you not changing your this nature? Why you failed in this test while you are capable more than enough.

Actually to do expectation should not be our problem but not to fulfill your expectations should be the problem of the next one. Because you are the one who is better in caring and standing on once wish perfectly but next one is imperfect in all this.

A day will come when he/ she will realize it but the time will have gone then. Nothing would be in his/her hand. You will be happy but the next one will have been lost a crucial and loyal person of his/her life.